We offer three Maqams (stations) so you can pick the level of support that works for your situation and budget. You can start anywhere and move between them as you go.
Every Maqam includes external ID verification. The higher tiers add deeper vetting and higher-touch support. What stays the same across all three: values-aligned matches and a halal, dignified process.
Fill out your profile, tell us what qualities you’re seeking in a marriage partner, and we’ll add you to our confidential matchmaking pool, seen only by our team. You’ll then receive introductions to potential matches, and you take it from there.
Become fully vetted and screened to receive increased, personalized introductions. Your verified status tells us, and prospective spouses, that you are genuine and mindful of everyone’s safety, privacy, and serious intentions.
We screen you more deeply, including an in-depth interview. Once you’re verified, we can send you more introductions, and the people we introduce you to will know you’re serious about marriage and committed to a safe, respectful process.
Coming soon
The full package. Everything in Maqams I and II, plus a personal coach to walk with you through the search. Your coach helps you build a strong profile, get clear on what you’re looking for, and think through how things are going as you get to know potential matches.
Coming soon| Community Access Maqam I | Verified Matchmaking Maqam II | Bespoke Coaching Maqam III | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Confidential profile in our staff-only database | Included | Included | Included |
| Introductions to potential matches | Included | Increased, personalized | Increased, personalized |
| External ID verification | Included | Included | Included |
| Background checks and character references (with consent) | Included | Included | |
| Full vetting and screening | Included | Included | |
| One-to-one coaching with a trusted companion | Included | ||
| Profile-building and preference honing | Included | ||
| Support during courtship | Included |
Fees for Maqams II and III will be shared once those services open.
A coach is someone who works with you through the search itself, not just before or after. Not therapy, not pure matchmaking, but the kind of support that sits between the two.
The dating apps weren’t designed to help you find a spouse. They were designed to keep you swiping. The swipe pattern is borrowed from slot machines, the same dopamine loop, just dressed up.
Researchers and even some former dating app executives have admitted as much, and the data backs it: heavier use correlates with more anxiety, more loneliness, more burnout. Psychologists describe the trap as “choice overload.” When you have unlimited options, you stop being able to choose any of them.
Matchmaking is older than apps, older than the internet, older than most of what we now call “modern dating.” A trusted person, who gets to know two people well, makes a thoughtful introduction.
We bring this forward with the modern tools that genuinely help (a secure platform, ID verification, video calls when you’re ready) and leave the toxic ones behind. No swiping, no public profiles, no algorithm rewarding your distraction. Just real attention from a real person, one introduction at a time.
Discretion is not a feature for us. It is the disposition of our whole practice. Your information is held with the same care we would ask for ourselves.
We use SmartMatchApp, a secure matchmaking platform, to protect the safety of your data.
Organization and client information is stored on servers with Privacy Shield, PIPEDA, and GDPR certifications.
Our platform uses end-to-end 256-bit encryption, providing top industrial-level security for your data.
Unlike dating apps, your profile is never seen outside the Rahma Connections team. We will never share or sell your information to any other organization.
Safety here isn’t one procedure. It’s a set of practices that work together, with help from the community.
We require character references from every applicant.
We also maintain a private reporting form so members can flag people who have shown abusive, manipulative, coercive, or unsafe behavior in their relationships or community spaces. Every report is investigated before any action is taken, and anyone who doesn’t clear our review will not enter our pool.
Even with our screening in place, your own vetting still matters. We recommend doing your own due diligence before marriage by pulling in trusted family, friends, and elders and asking the hard questions.
If you have ideas for how we can do this better, please tell us.
Choose the Maqam that works for you and start your application. If you have questions before then, send them our way.